Right. You are a Daddy Dom.
You can fuck a babygirl like no other.
Teach her how to suck her Daddy’s cock.
Make her make those cute little baby noises you love so much.
Make her cum for Daddy.
Beat her senseless.
COOL. You’ve got like, a small portion of this dynamic down.
As someone who enjoys being little as often as possible, the things listed above are an awesome bonus for me. But when I can’t get my other needs fulfilled, “bedroom Daddies” don’t end up being enough for my little self.
Are you still going to be my Daddy outside the bedroom? Outside the house?
Can you hold me when I am scared?
Will you help me make decisions that I feel are too complex? Yes. This can be as simple as what socks match my dress best, or which stuffie to bring to bed.
Will you stick with me through my tantrums?
Can you discipline me in a loving way that will help me learn and not just scare me into obedience?
Do you have a true interest in the puppies and flowers and friends and people and fun things I saw when I was away from you that I want so badly to tell you all about? (Usually very quickly and excitedly. Yes, you may have to make me talk a bit slower so you can understand)
Can you realize that sometimes, when I am certain ages, I can’t understand things I might understand easily as a Big? Can you explain these things to me?
Will you watch my favorite cartoons with me before bed? Read me my favorite book?
Brush my hair? Tie my shoes? Bathe me or wash me in the shower? Tuck me in?
Will you ask for a coloring book and crayons for me when we’re out together at restaurants?
Remember my stuffies names? Know how serious a lost paci eaten by the evil couch is?
Will you take my fears seriously, no matter how trivial they may seem?
Can you reassure me and support me?
Help me be a better little girl? Not only for you, but for myself and everyone else?
Do you have the patience that is needed for a little girl?
If you are only set to buy your partner stuffies every so often, get off on her calling you Daddy, and you calling her your little girl… You may want to reevaluate how you are putting yourself out there. For the little girls who are looking for a Daddy outside of the bedroom as well, it can be hard having to find one who fits their non-sexual little/baby needs. My little needs to be supported and cared for emotionally, mentally, and physically as well as sexually.
If a Daddy can do these things for me..
I can learn. I can be a good girl. I can feel safe and loved. No amount of money spent on hello kitty items can compare to the simple acts it takes to make me feel safe as a little girl.
This is how this dynamic works for me. This is in no way to judge “bedroom Daddies” as I call them. No kink is better than anyone elses, all are legitimate. But just know that some littles need more than that. <3
Credit goes to Moonshine